You go through the years and hear over and over, that Love is the only thing that matters. It is not opinions or religion. It is not feelings or views. It truly is the word Love. After recently seeing so many news events that are involving people hurting others, there is only one answer. It is love and also self love. When you love you and appreciate your life for what it is, there is no desire to harm others. You do not seek out ways to hurt anyone and spend all of the time you are given by our beautiful Creator being happy and trying to overcome the fact that there are many others who are on a totally different path.
Each and every person that is hurting right now, is the result of someone not showing love or loving themself. Think about it. Living each day with self love and harming no others is something that most people cannot absorb into their souls. The world is too busy. Obsessed with money and religion. Obsessed over being seen as a successful person. Having the best life is waking up and actively making a difference in the world. Never seeking to hurt anyone else and allowing each person to live their own life path without criticism or fear of being hurt.
It takes time to get on this path. It is easy to gossip and condemn others. It is easy to judge. What is to realize is this, the only thing that Matters and the only answer is Love. Feel it? Live it. Wake up to the beauty of the world, notice everything like it is your last day. Only see the best in who is around you and the world will be what it was intended to be from the beginning. Amazing and beautiful.
Keeping it real...some thing that I have been trying to do lately is that. Trying to find a way to still be myself when nothing is about me anymore. Struggles are so great for everyone and I am sure you have a long list as well. Not everyone is going to have the same challenges in life and sometimes the things that bother us the most are things that do not show up in our photo's. Invisible to others but they continue to eat at our souls until we have resolved them. So this is me , on a day that was nice. It is easy to post a photo after we have done our hair and picked out the perfect clothes, but on this day I did none of the above. I don't live near the ocean. I live on a small street in a small town in Missouri. In a small house. So my outlook is starting to change. Keeping it real. Wearing my sweatpants when I want. Brushing my hair less, maybe even cleaning less. Keeping it all together on the inside is much easier for me when I am not trying to keep it all together on the outside. I love gardening and am going to make this the best season ever, all while making a mess, lol. I read once, that one of your goals should be that when you have people over to your house, they should leave feeling better about themselves, not feeling better about you. And that totally meant why do I spend 4 hours cleaning when I know someone is coming by for 5 minutes? I must be crazy. So here I go, off to work and all the while ...keeping it so real people will be wondering all day what the heck is wrong with me :) and if your feeling the same way.... take the challenge and start just being you :)